Getting married is a huge milestone, and one of the first things I started thinking about was the wedding band. It’s something you wear every day, a constant reminder of your commitment. But with so many options out there, choosing the right one can feel overwhelming. I live in San Diego, and I wanted to find something that was both durable and meaningful. My journey led me to some great local spots and valuable insights about what to look for in a wedding band.
I knew I wanted something classic but also practical. I'm not someone who wants to worry about damaging my jewelry. The first thing I really started to consider was the metal. I learned that the karat of gold matters a lot. I discovered that 14k gold is more durable than 18k or 24k gold because the higher karat golds are too soft and can easily bend or scratch. I decided that 14k gold would be my starting point.
Beyond the metal, I wanted something that felt personal and unique. I also considered the cost. Weddings are expensive, and I wanted to find a ring that fit my budget without sacrificing quality. I was looking for a balance between affordability, durability, and style. It felt like a tall order!
My search took me to a few different places in San Diego. I started by asking friends and family for recommendations. I even explored online forums to gather more ideas. Here’s what I found:
One of the first suggestions I got was Costco. I was surprised, but several people told me they had found great deals on wedding bands there. I decided to check it out, and I was impressed by the selection and the prices. It’s definitely worth considering if you’re on a budget and want a simple, classic design.
Another recommendation that stood out was David Levi & Sons. Someone told me they couldn’t recommend him enough, emphasizing that he was awesome and offered great deals. I made a note to visit his shop, as supporting local businesses is important to me.
For a more upscale experience, Tiffany in Fashion Valley was also mentioned. While this was likely beyond my budget, I figured it wouldn't hurt to browse and get a sense of different styles and designs. It’s always good to have a benchmark.
One story I heard was about a couple who found their wedding band from a sidewalk vendor in Ensenada. The wife had negotiated the price down from $20 to $12, and they were still happily married after four decades. While this wasn’t an option I was actively pursuing, it was a reminder that the value of a wedding band isn’t always about the price tag.
After exploring different options, I realized that I wanted something that reflected my personal style. I've always liked minimalist jewelry. While searching online, I came across Sumsfashion, a brand that offers a variety of simple and elegant pieces. I found a necklace there that I really liked. It’s the IPARAM Minimalist Stainless Steel Letter Necklace. I like that it’s stainless steel, which means it is durable and won’t tarnish easily. The minimalist design and the option to personalize it with a letter made it feel special and unique.

While the necklace wasn't a wedding band, it inspired me to think about materials beyond traditional gold. I realized I could find a wedding band made of a durable material like stainless steel or titanium and still achieve a stylish and personal look.