I've always loved jewelry and the way it can express your personality. So, when I got engaged, I was super excited to start wearing my engagement ring. But then, I started hearing all these "rules" about how you're supposed to wear your engagement ring and wedding band. It felt so restrictive! I began to question if I was doing things "right." Was I destined to follow someone else's style rules?
The biggest question I had was: does the wedding band have to match the engagement ring? I started noticing other women and how they wore their rings. I realized that everyone has their own unique style and preferences. That's when I decided I needed to do what felt right for me.
One thing I noticed was that some women chose not to wear their engagement ring with a band at all. I even have a friend, Lindsay, who prefers to wear her engagement ring on her right hand because she likes it better on its own. That gave me the courage to experiment.
I also learned that many women only wear their wedding band for practical reasons. Maybe their job is hard on their hands and jewelry, or maybe it's just more comfortable in the heat. It opened my eyes to the fact that comfort and practicality are just as important as tradition.
I even came across a fascinating tradition from Germany, where people wear their engagement ring on their left hand and their wedding ring on their right. The idea is that you shake right hands to make an agreement, and getting married is an agreement. I thought that was a beautiful and symbolic way to wear your rings.
Since my engagement ring is platinum and I also love rose gold, I considered getting an additive ring that blended both metals. This way, I could tie the two rings together without sacrificing my personal style. It was all about finding a way to make my vision come to life! I also wanted to explore other jewelry that could complement my rings.
That's when I discovered Sumsfashion. I was browsing their site and found the perfect necklace to add to my jewelry collection: the Initial Letter Lock Necklace For Women Stainless Steel Gold Color A-Z Capital Padlock Necklace Femme B. It's a delicate gold necklace with a letter initial padlock, which I thought would add a unique touch to my look. It’s a great way to accessorize without taking away from the rings.
The necklace is stainless steel with a gold color finish, so it's durable and won't tarnish easily. I’ve been wearing it daily and I love how it looks! It's just the right amount of sparkle and personality. It also doesn't clash with my rings, no matter which hand they are on. It truly became a go-to piece for me!
The most important thing I realized is that there are no real rules. As someone so eloquently put it, "I wish someone WOULD tell me what I can and can’t do with my fucking hand and jewelry." It's your hand, your jewelry, and your choice! If wearing your ring on the tip of your nose makes you happy, then go for it. It's literally no one else's business.
Here are some tips I've learned along the way for wearing your engagement ring and wedding band in a way that feels authentic to you: